RAGE & ABUSE WORKSHOP
RAGE, ABUSE & VOLATILE BEHAVIOR AWARENESS WORKSHOP
You can overcome your fears. Learn about resiliency and to have “courage.”
KNOW THAT THERE IS NO EXPIRATION DATE ON ANGER, VOLATILE BEHAVIOR AND ABUSE OF ANY KIND IF IT’S HAPPENING TO YOU IN YOUR HOME OR IN YOUR LIFE.
SO, UNLESS YOU DO SOMETHING TO MAKE A CHANGE OR A DIFFERENCE YOU WILL SUFFER UNTIL YOU DO.
ABUSE AND ANGER DON’T GO AWAY ALL BY THEMSELVES UNLESS YOU HAVE A MAGIC WAND. SET “YOUR” EXPIRATION DATE FOR ABUSE “FOR NOW” !
(if not, you might want to write out your “epitaph” of how you want to be remembered, just in case)
ASK YOURSELF:“HOW DO I WANT TO LIVE AND SPEND THE REST OF MY DAYS ON THIS PLANET BEFORE I’M JUST NOT HERE.
ANYMORE, EVER? (This is whether you’re the abuser or the abused) OUR LIFE IS ABOUT OUR CHOICES.
HOW MANY REPEAT APOLOGIES AND BROKEN PROMISES DO YOU HAVE TO GO THROUGH BEFORE YOU’RE DONE, OR DEAD????
IT’S NOT ALWAYS THE OTHER GUY THAT THE BAD STUFF HAPPENS TO!!
ASK YOURSELF: HOW MUCH DO I LOVE MYSELF AND MY CHILD??LET ME COUNT THE WAYS. 15 THERE ANYTHING YOU’RE LOOKJNG FORWARD TO FOR YOU OR YOUR CHILD IN THE “FUTURE? DO YOU SEE OR THINK ABOUT A “FUTURE”???
STOPPING. PREVENTING & RECOGNIZING ABUSE & VOLATILE BEHAVIOR WITHIN THE FAMILY AND IN YOUR LIFE: Physical,
Verbal, Emotional, & Financial... what you can to do about it to end it...Know that abuse can become addictive and habitual to the abuser because of the feelings they get. Rage, Violence,Battering, Fear: is there terrorism in your home or in your life?
Make change happen now.
Why is there such misguided abusive angry behavior?? Do they love themselves and life? Stop living in fear…Recognize the warning signs of abuse…
What manipulation and intimidation is, and what it can mean for you and yours.. .
First find the root of the problem which is the underlying reason in the person’s “belief system”that he/she believes in, and that they feel gives them the right to control, dominate and abuse … This awareness is important so you can move forward knowing “the thoughts”that most often turn to those angry ” feelings” into the “abusive” behavior that happens. This creates awareness which usually gives some understanding of the “cause” or just how they perceive something. This helps in being able to make “change” happen. Most often an abuser behaves this way by choice as a way to control, assert power, punish, be sexually aroused, or possibly enjoy causing pain, and what they were taught from childhood by living in chat kind of an environment, or it also fulfills what they perceive co be their need. It can bea women as well as a man. Getting professional help is a must once anyone is out of control and hurting or frightening someone and knowing when you need to leave.
You or an abuser will learn about “Anger Triggers” and the management of them, about patience, ways to difuse and very effective ways to communicate for successful relationships and for behavior that are acceptable and appropriate: about values, courage, priorities, safety and what you have to lose should you or an abuser choose not to make a “change.” How to set boundaries & teach life’s lessons to your children; do more than just get along in your home, the workplace and in all facets of your life. Learn how you can do this in a civilized way without violence or abuse and in a loving caring manner while maintaining respect & rebuilding lost trust… much of the time.
LEARNING THAT THE POWER AND ABILITY TO HAVE LOVING, TRUSTING, CARING FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS IS WITHIN YOU “ALL” IF YOU HAVE THE DESIRE, BELIEF, COURAGE, AND COMMITMENT TO MAKE A “CHANGE” HAPPEN IF NEED BE. YOU CHOOSE TO DO SO WITH A GOOD, SAFE SUPPORT SYSTEM IN PLACE. IT’S ABOUT YOU AND YOURS ENJOYING “THE GREAT FEELING OF ALIVENESS” AGAIN. HOW YOU CAN HELP PREVENT VIOLENCE, AND STOP ABUSE, END FEAR. LEARN ABOUT AND PRACTICE HOW TO BE “RESILIENT” IN ORDER TO THRIVE AND CREATE WONDERFUL MEMORIES.
Know that whether you believe you can or can’t do something, you are probably right and, you will be amazed at what we can accomplish together.